Remember, finding shared interests is the first step in building trust and rapport, which can get you on your way to developing a long-term relationship with someone. Here’s another one that used not one, but TWO things in my profile to relate to.
He tied it all together by ending with a question about other good pizza places that we both live near.He added value to this by mentioning that he used to live in Chicago, which is the birthplace of deep dish pizza.He related to my mentioning that my favorite type of pizza at Capos is “so good.”.This guy used this formula in a very strategic way: Relate + Add Value + End with a Question = A Practically Guaranteed Connection When it comes to Tinder opening lines for guys, it’s really helpful to use the following formula: This guy has game, so make sure you take note of his strategy. He also made sure to ask me an open-ended question about my plans for the weekend in order to keep the conversation going. (Sidebar: If you haven’t seen this bit yet, stop cheating yourself and enhance your life.) He also is relating to my interest in comedy by mentioning some bits from his favorite comedians, including one from stand-up comedian/LEGEND John Mulaney. This guy did everything right by showing that he read my profile. I would have responded, if I didn’t have a BF. Note: If you scroll down to #20…you’ll see this guy’s super creative way of sending a second message after I didn’t respond his opener above. You don’t want to make your entire conversation one that is done through memes, Gifs, or emojis (trust me, people out there try), but using a meme like this is a great way to create a memorable first impression without having to think too hard about it. #8: Using Memes and Gifs Can Be a Creative Way to Open This guy played his cards right by mentioning something fairly intimate - spooning - that is innocuous at the same time. In fact, just refrain from asking women you’ve never met or barely know to have sex with you. “For the love of everything, will you do me?”ĭon’t ever assault a woman’s phone with an explicitly sexual opening line.#7: Safely and Effectively Escalate Sexual ChemistryĪ lot of guys on Tinder will come at women with one of a few versions of these opening lines: (Yes, I know I’ve used this opener twice…it won’t count towards the total :)) And this guy made his opener super cute and humorous with the whole “hot dogs” thing. Including a question about dogs - or other cute animals - is always a good way to stand out when throwing out an opening line. I already included that I want bulldogs in my profile, so this guy can rest assured I’m a dog person when messaging me. This can help create chemistry online that can be enhanced when the two of you actually meet in person. Are you friendly?” shows a flirtatious touch of apprehension that encourages the woman responding to be playful as well. But challenging a woman in a playful way like this guy did is great. When I say “controversial,” I obviously don’t mean using a Tinder opener that is laced in profanity or overtly sexual (women get plenty of that already, trust me). Here’s a couple other tinder opener examples you can use that use this “shared interest” strategy: Now, if I was a single woman, this guy could have really hooked me and gotten me to go on a date with him if he had suggested a cool pizza place that serves awesome Chicago-style pizza. This guy showed that he took the time to actually look at my profile and made note of a shared interest we have - deep dish pizza with ranch. This guy put a creative and funny twist on the typical “Hi” or “Hi, how are you?” by including this wonderfully ridiculous image (for more tips on photos check out my other article on the best tinder pics for guys). Best Tinder Opening Lines For Guys #1: A Funny Photo Welcome.īelow are 45 of the best Tinder opening lines I received, along with some helpful tips so that you can experience the most success possible while using this app. Using this profile, I was able to find and assess a plethora of Tinder opening lines for guys and determined which ones were the best.